dating with depression

the rules of cohabitation

self love languages

love languages have been connected to intimate bonds and relationships for so long that we often forget we are capable of taking care of ourselves in the same way others can. sure, it’s nice to have someone to care for us in the ways we like to be cared for but, to me, it is…

22 things I want to do in 2022

going into this new year, there are so many things I want to do with the next 365 days. the possibilities are endless, but these are the things at the top of my 2022 bucket list: 1. read 6 books every semester I find it harder and harder to read for leisure. so many of…

cheers to the new year

dear Father Time, I’m torn, because, while I have a few bones to pick with you, I am also grateful for the abundance of love that surrounded me over the last year. through the best and the worst of times, there is so much to look back on and appreciate. january my motherfucking birthday month!…

my 5 self-care hacks

“My life is about to be incredibly blissful, the great thing is that I AM in control of that” get your own set of Confidence Stack & Anxiety Stack 1. date yourself I’m telling yall, there is no happiness that compares to what you feel when you date yourself. take yourself to lunch or dinner….

unashamedly, me

“I openly embrace my weirdness, awkwardness and embarrassments. I am no longer ashemed to be my raw self” **get your own Anxiety Stack and Confidence Stack ❤ as early as I can remember, I was always a little bit on the weird side. from my eclectic (hint the site name 🙂 ) to my mix-matched…