self love languages

love languages have been connected to intimate bonds and relationships for so long that we often forget we are capable of taking care of ourselves in the same way others can. sure, it’s nice to have someone to care for us in the ways we like to be cared for but, to me, it is…

me, myself & I

the only validation I need is my own I used to grovel to be accepted feared being rejected by the people I called my friends the only care I needed was mine, and mine alone I have learned as I have grown I know my value and my worth now my circle’s small but strong…

succulent

succulent quite the same, you and I even with the bare minimum we stay strong, we survive a little water here a little sunlight there replenish our soil we don’t require much care our blossom is slow and wonderful to behold simplistic beauty that break the mold succulent quite the same, you and I even…

the fear that held me back

“my fears cannot go where I’m headed. they have no authority over my life” it is easier to succumb to fear than to fight it but, if there’s one thing I’ve learned on my journey, it’s that fear is the heaviest baggage I’ve ever carried. I had to sit down and really face them head…

my 5 self-care hacks

“My life is about to be incredibly blissful, the great thing is that I AM in control of that” get your own set of Confidence Stack & Anxiety Stack 1. date yourself I’m telling yall, there is no happiness that compares to what you feel when you date yourself. take yourself to lunch or dinner….

unashamedly, me

“I openly embrace my weirdness, awkwardness and embarrassments. I am no longer ashemed to be my raw self” **get your own Anxiety Stack and Confidence Stack ❤ as early as I can remember, I was always a little bit on the weird side. from my eclectic (hint the site name 🙂 ) to my mix-matched…

self-love playlist

starting today, I’m getting back into my daily affirmations. thanks to my mama and Sassy Jones I have this beautiful Confidence Stack, which I’ll be using for the rest of self love November ❤ on my best and worst days, these songs remind me of all the work I’ve done and the inspiration to keep…

entry #21

dear depression diary, thinking back, I can’t believe there was ever a time when I didn’t prioritize myself. I always have been and (probably) always will be–a people pleaser. if there’s one thing I wish I could tell my younger self is to make sure she puts her energy into people who will put that…

a woman’s worth

enough is enough, I’m standing my ground putting my foot down you cannot have my joy I said NO! no more texts, no more calls had your chance to have it all I’ll no longer allow you to tear me down let’s be clear, I’ve found peace and love, and I put mine above the…

entry #20

dear depression diary, one thing I have learned over the last couple of years is that I am worthy. once upon a time, there was someone in my life who would constantly tell me that no one else was ever going to “put up with me” the way he did, that no one would ever…